FLASHBACK 1963

"you say it's your birthday...it's my birthday too, yeah...they say it's your birthday...we're gonna have a good time...i'm glad it's your birthday...happy birthday to you..."
okay...i wasn't around in 1963 so, technically, i can't flashback with an ACTUAL memory. but...i can tell you that something fantasical happened on october 30th of this year. the bk was born!!
FLASH FORWARD today
being born between october 23 and november 21...the bk and i are both scorpios. and the bk is, most definitely, scorpio! what does that mean, you ask? we scorpios feel like we are in control of our own destiny...basically, we live life on our terms. we are fearless and stubborn. and, just when it looks like we will self~destruct, we bounce right back. scorpios are ruled by mars (the god of war) and pluto (the god of the underworld) which makes us motivated, penetrating, and extremely intuitive. we make it our mission to know who is who and what is what. you can try to argue with a scorpio...you probably won't win. why? because we never give up and we are extremely resourceful. if we lose today, we'll punch you in the throat tomorrow. okay. okay. maybe not LITERALLY. but we will. i mean it. scorpios keep their emotions to themselves...basically, secrets to be used when needed. i will admit to not hiding my emotions as much as the bk. but, what people are seeing is nothing compared to what we're feeling...and how many mental ovary punches we are throwing. 
so, what about compatibility? when we first started dating, we actually looked it up. in a nutshell, we found that we would be either a perfect match or a disaster in the making. hmmmm...can you guess which category we fell under? we balance each other out. bk is very quiet. i am very outspoken. i inspire him to speak up, and he tells me when to shut up. he holds me back from throwing my punches, reminding me that karma will take care of it. and i...i taught him that karma exists.  did i say we balance each other out? never~mind. he keeps me in line. 
even if you don't really follow astrology, you ought to check out your sign. you will be amazed at the personality traits you share with people of your same sign. and check out your compatibility. it could help you understand your relationships. and, at the very least, you'll have fun learning.